10 Relationship Red Flags You'll See Over Text

Red flags in text conversations are easy to miss when you're emotionally invested. The AI doesn't have that problem. Here are the 10 patterns it consistently flags as warning signs.

• 1. Love bombing. Excessive compliments, declarations of love, and intense messages very early on. It feels amazing but it's a control tactic.
• 2. Stonewalling. Going silent for days without explanation. Not the same as being busy — this is punishment.
• 3. Guilt tripping. "I guess you're too busy for me" "Must be nice to have a life." Emotional manipulation disguised as vulnerability.
• 4. Monitoring behavior. "Who are you with?" "Why didn't you reply?" "Show me your phone." Control, not concern.
• 5. Intermondent reinforcement. Hot one day, cold the next. Unpredictable affection creates anxiety and addiction.
• 6. Gaslighting. "I never said that" "You're remembering it wrong" "You're being dramatic." Denying your reality.
• 7. Scorekeeping. "I did X for you, what did you do for me?" Relationships aren't transactions.
• 8. Silent treatment. Withholding communication as punishment. A green-flag person talks about problems instead.
• 9. Dismissiveness. "You're overreacting" "It's not a big deal" "Calm down." Your feelings are being minimized.
• 10. Inconsistency. Words don't match actions. They say they care but their behavior says otherwise. The AI reads the pattern.